I've been on countless first dates. So many that I'm completely comfortable and laid back during them: I don't get nervous and I have no problem being myself. However, sometimes I forget that my date isn't the same way. Oftentimes they are nervous and I interpret this as them being boring or uninterested. Sigh.Dating this day in age is hard! So the women of Reddit and myself are here to help you dudes out on what NOT to do during first dates. And it's more than just minding your manners.
As a woman: please do NOT listen to The Pickup Artist!