Can you go back once you bat for the other team?
It’s no big deal these days to identify as gay; people are living their lives in all kinds of different sexual configurations and situations. The way to find out what you really want in the bedroom is to do a little research. And by research, I mean experiment.
Some straight men have gone so far as to hook up with other guys just to see if they had it in them to convert. Some made the transition to same-sex relationships, and others just didn’t see an appeal after all.
The Bro I Am
In college I was obsessed with sex and pretty much went through the entire catalog of sexual experiences. I agreed to a 3-way with a girl and her bisexual boyfriend. You know, it’s quite a thing to have a guy’s dick in your mouth and at the same time realize that you are not the slightest bit into guys. I finished him off though because that’s the kind of bro I am. (voice_of_craisin)
Just an Experiment
I received a BJ from a guy who lived near me simply because I wanted to know what it felt like. I have a female friend who is bi and she said that girls know how to do oral better than most guys, so I just had this thought that it would be the same for guys. I was on a swingers website at the time and after a few drinks one evening I just thought, ‘don’t knock it til you try it’. I messaged a guy near me and told him I just wanted a quick BJ and he agreed.
He lived about a mile from me so it was easy to get to. He did all the work, I didn’t finish as it felt…well awkward. It was ok I guess but I didn’t feel at all comfortable having a guy doing it. I told him to stop and said sorry for wasting his time but I didn’t feel comfortable with this. He was understanding and held no hard feelings (he knew it was just an experiment) and I left.
Im glad I did it but I wouldn’t do it again. (TAWY1990)
When I was in my early teens a friend and I experimented a number of times with swapping blowjobs. It was fun, don’t regret it at all. I suspect a big part of that is we were best friends and so it didn’t seem awkward.
Move to adulthood I assumed I was a bit bi-sexual due to this earlier encounter. I was in a dry spell with women so I decided to try men…and quickly learned I don’t feel any attraction to men, and unless I’m unusually horny I’m repulsed by the idea. [deleted user]