It all seemed so normal. A group of friends went to a Cheddar's Restaurant after church one day, had a good meal and fine service, then left. It was what happened while they were eating, in another part of the restaurant, that made headlines.At a time when racial tensions in America are at a fever pitch, everyone needs to be especially attentive to their own biases. Especially on social media, where hate speech can spread like wildfire. The Cheddar's waitress waitress was perfectly nice to the patrons' faces, but, behind their backs was acting a whole other way. Here's the sordid story.