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Don’t Care
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Last year’s NYE, I started to engage sexually with my first cousin. She was 16, I was 17 (male). At first, we just made out, but it slowly progressed to handjobs from her and fingering from me. Soon, she was giving me blowjobs and well, we wanted to do more but we couldn’t find a way to do it without getting noticed.
This year, though, we worked it out and managed to do it. We did it two times while we were drunk. I can’t say I disliked it or I feel guilty or anything. It is amazing, we are both horny as f***, she’s hot and thinks I’m hot as well. I only see her once or twice a year, but I always look forward to it. I don’t give a sh**. (throwaway2288228828)
No Weirdness
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I had sex with my cousin when we were both 17. It was consensual and there were never any guilty feelings from either side. We only had sex the one time but I think it was because we both fell into long term relationships shortly after we slept together. Our relationship never changed after we slept together, this was over 20yrs ago and we still talk on a pretty regular basis with no weirdness. (Cousinthrownaway)
Upsetting
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I (f) had a sexual relationship with my cousin (m) for a few years. It started when I was 14 and he was 16. He stayed at my house for a week and we tried to have sex but I was scared so we just did oral and I got fingered. He left the top of a condom wrapper out in the open and we almost got caught. Then for the next few years up until we were about 17 and 19 we would sext, make out, and if we could visit overnight and not just for a few hours we would have sex. I’d always felt lust towards him and at 12 and 14 we did almost have an encounter in a pool. We went by ourselves and he said he couldn’t swim so he stayed pretty much on each other the entire time we were in there. My aunt let us share a bed that night and we cuddled.
I don’t feel bad or gross now but we don’t talk. He wanted a relationship but we would have had to keep it a secret and I’ve always wanted kids and I know having kids with my first cousin could cause major issues. I had to break it off. I upset him and I feel guilty about it but now it seems like he moved on just fine. (throwaway93838299)