Sorry bud, no explanation is "good" enough
Cheating is never really advisable, yet it happens constantly. You could be in a loving relationship thinking that you’re partner could never do wrong until you find out that everyone in town but you knows how badly the love of your life has been cheating. It can even be an emotional affair where you get dumped because this other person loves them so much more than you do, in their minds. This man fully believed that his cheating actually made him better for his unaware girlfriend, but he’s getting torn apart by everyone he tells. We’ve got a completely different theory about how his cheating is affecting his relationship…
Reddit user NEnativethrowaway explained:
“I have a girlfriend whom I absolutely love. We have been dating for somewhat more than two years now and living respectively throughout the previous half year. My girlfriend and I hang out constantly! We go to the gym together, we cook together, we go mountain biking on the ends of the week together. The main time we don’t see each other is when we are grinding away at work. She is genuinely my closest companion.
“She would do anything on the planet for me, and I would do likewise for her. I feel an affection for her that I haven’t had for any other individual. However, there is one thing missing from our relationship, being physical.”
Are you experienced?
“With regards to our history, she is more experienced than I am. Outside of her I’ve had sex with 4 other people, and one of them was an ex from a relationship that didn’t last very long. On her end, she has had sex with 15 people and just two of them were exes. I battled a great deal with her number toward the start of the relationship and I’m amazed she didn’t say breakup with me me as a result of it. My girlfriend is a total flirt, and I know when she goes out with her ‘girls,’ she enjoys being hit on my other men.
“During our first year together sex was never an issue. We resembled two secondary school kids who couldn’t keep their hands off each other. Even though I was jealous with the number of guys she flirted with, the less I brought it up, the more we had sex. She enjoyed feeling attractive by getting hit on by other men. It was something she required, so I have been sucking up the reality I get envious of her when she goes out. Nonetheless, nearly at precisely the same I began to voice my jealousy less, we have had sex less.”
“Our lives began to get also started to get busy after the first year, she started going back to school, and I got a promotion at work. When we talked about the absence of sex together, we just blamed it on our lack of time and our low energy. Our busy schedules made it hard for us to see each other, so six months ago we decided to move in together.
“I thought living together would solve our physical issues since additional time was accessible to us, yet it hasn’t. Since we moved in together, when I ask her if she’s happy with the reality we only have sex twice per month, she tells me she’s happy.
“This leads me to the last two months. I never thought I would be the kind of guy who cheats, however I did, and I’m still doing it. The girl my girlfriend considers ‘my work wife’ has been hooking up with me for the last two months. It began at conference we attended together, and has driven us to have sex multiple times per week either sneaking off to her place during lunch or getting together when my girlfriend is having a ‘girls’ night.”