The more the merrier, or no?
When you find your match, its only natural that you’d want to spend as much time alone with them as possible. That’s not always possible though, you have to split your time with your friends. Choosing to invite a friend to hang out with you and your beau can be fun… sometimes. Check out these stories of three wheels gone wrong.
My SO’s brother. He’s a junkie we can’t afford to feed and who we can’t emotionally deal with, because we have stress from our bills and kids and an illness in the family. I think he’s trying to sneak move in right now and I can’t live with him again. He reminds me of an abusive ex I had years ago, and him being in the same building makes me anxious. The first time I met him was right after I called the cops on him for laying his hands on his mother. She called me, crying, from the bathroom, because he had choked her and slammed her into a wall because she told him not to bully her dogs. The cops made him leave. A few months later he moved back in with her, after we had moved in with her so she could afford the bills. I called the cops on him again for putting his hands on a girl he had been seeing while he was in our house. The cops didn’t make him leave the second time. He tried to sneak move another girl in. We tried to make things work, but after we got our tax return back, our car shit out, and we started looking for another. He offers to go half and half on a car. I plead with my SO not to trust the brother. He pleads with me to trust him. I relent, and we go half and half on the car. We finally can’t take dealing with the brother after 2 more months and ask him and his girl to leave. They took the car, got a title loan, refinanced the loan to double what they got out of it, and never paid us back. It got repo’ed. We had to scrounge for money to get bikes so we could make it to the nearest grocery store in less than an hour. It was awful. In the 7 months we lived with him, he paid his portion of the rent once, because he stole money from some poor girl he met online. I felt so bad when I found out about it. I love my SO, but his brother is one of the 3 most terrible people I’ve ever met.(notkeenontalking)
My old boyfriend had the worst family, his mother and siblings all thought I wasn’t good enough for him even when we had dated for 3 years, he was unemployed and failed the same education twice while I had work and two diplomas.
His younger sister was great though, so once for her 14th birthday she wanted to have a giant sleepover and she invited me, sadly I had to work that weekend so I couldn’t come, the girl moved her party up a week so I could ask for time off from work. So I show up, they lived about an hour from my house, and her mother had decided the sleepover would be at the older sisters house, and she didn’t want me in her home (I have never done anything to her) My boyfriend wasn’t even home that day because I came over for his sister so I spend all night alone in their house excluded from a party I was invited to.(Jesteress)
My Mom. She was a drug addict and had been for about 10 years. She decided she didn’t like my girlfriend and started doing everything she could to keep us apart. She wouldn’t let her come over to our house, and would try her best to keep my from going over there. Every time the subject got brought up she would freak out. Those years were pretty tough.
My parents are now divorced, and my then-girlfriend is now my wife.(theedjman)