Why don't you love me?!?!
I had a girl who lived in the dorm across the way. She wasn’t attractive and was extremely immature for her age. Every story she told was to one up yours or to get to be the center of attention. And she openly admitted to being Bi-Polar and was on meds for it.
My roommates thought she was annoying (I kinda did as well), but we were nice to her. Even when she forgot to take her meds (more than once) and flew off the handle. But still, we invited her over and included her in things.
Well, she openly admitted to everyone (when we had a party) that she liked me. I wasn’t there, but apparently there were details that my roommates spared me from. After this, she started following me around campus and was coming over to just hang out with me.
I thought nothing of this until I had sort of made a FWB with a girl from another class. Bi-Polar girl came unglued. Yelled at me, said I cheated on her, and that I was basically scum (putting it nicely). I told her that we weren’t going out, that she should mind her own business, etc.
I decided then would be a good time to distance myself from her. So I made myself scarce around my dorm (I got hobbys). Things with the FWB eventually broke off (she got to be very controlling, I ended it). I came home one night, opened the door to my dorm room, and there was my neighbor.
Naked in my bed. (READ: She’s a 0 out of 10 for me, not attractive at all).
She told me how she had heard about me and FWB and that she wanted to make me feel better.
I told her to get the f*** out, then left to get the RA. [deleted user]
Not My Brand
When I was 21 I started dating this guy who was about 30. I was one of those girls who insisted I needed to date older guys because I was sooo mature. Nevermind the fact that he lived with his hoarder mother, had no job, no car, but plenty of “I’m so much better than everyone” attitude.
He was basically emotionally a teenager, and just an ass. He’d insult me constantly, publicly make fun of my appearance. He couldn’t take no for an answer. He wanted to hang out EVERY DAY, when I was exhausted from 10 hour shifts at work.
One time when I was sick, I told him I couldn’t pick him up that day. He insisted on it because he “wants to take care of me”. Whatever. I agreed, drove the thirty minutes to pick him up, and back. He spent the whole day just bitching. “I’m bored.” “Why won’t you talk more?” “don’t you appreciate me coming over?” “Why do you want to SLEEP? Spend time with me. I didn’t HAVE to do this.” etc.
He was insanely jealous and suspicious. My yard at the apartment I lived in sloped down from the road, and the wind always blew down trash people threw out of their cars, including a cigarette butt in the driveway, and he saw it and accused me of cheating because it wasn’t his brand.
Finally broke up with him. He stole and broke my ipod. He texted me nearly a year later to inform me that he was getting married to the perfect woman and was so much happier. Then six months after that, to inform me that she cheated on him and they split up. He wanted a hook up, I declined. He claimed he had nudes of me from when we dated and threatened me with them. I told him he was pathetic.
He’s sporadically texted me since then but I never reply anymore. Maybe my nudes are out there somewhere, but whatever. (ioncehadasoul)
In for the Long Haul
So, my girlfriend of over a year and I went on vacation with her family to Daytona. We got a nice condo and before the vacation I agreed to pay for my flight ticket, beer, and any other event/item I wanted to attend which was basically just buying tourist stuff, going parasailing, and going deep sea fishing. ANYWAYS, about halfway through the trip my already moody girlfriend starts bitching at me because I didn’t hear what she said which then evolves into a face to face yelling match. At the end she slaps me HARD in the face in front of her parents and I couldn’t do anything besides walk out of the condo and head to the beach. The rest of the vacation we tried to stay as far apart from each other as possible. When we flew back to our hometown, there was an awkward moment where she was driving me back to my parents place and I asked her if we were going to try and reconcile this and she said she wanted to move on. Ok, at least I tried.
Here comes the fun part.
That night I was pretty damn devastated about the whole thing so I was ready to just go out, get hammered, and try to bang some chick. I went out to a local dive bar, met up with my best friends and got hammered, then got a call from my EX-EX girlfriend who heard about the breakup and wants to meet up. She comes to my place and we bang and it is beautiful.
The next morning I hear a knock at the door and it’s my now crazy ex. She tells me she drove by on her way to work (which is not on her way to work) and saw my ex-ex car outside. I say “Yep, she’s upstairs and she stayed the night last night”. Crying and screaming ensue and I basically just shut the door on her like she shut the door on me (mentally). Hours later she is calling and saying she is pregnant, yet she had her period while we were on vacation. Then telling me she needs to be with me. I tell her no. An hour passes and her parents call demanding money for the vacation we went on and her dad threatening to come over and kick my ass. Her parents even go as far as calling my parents and threatening them with coming over to “fight” them and also with money demands. I eventually get them back to focusing on me but tell them I am not paying them jack S*** for the vacation.
So the next day, the crazy ex posts the ring I bought her as a “promise ring” (f***ing stupid) on Facebook trying to sell it. She puts me on blast on all social media for “cheating” on her when in reality she f***ing ended it and I tried to be with her. She texts my parents saying they were horrible at raising me, then proceeds to tell my friends that I talk s*** about them constantly. Then posts a picture of my graduation picture from college on Facebook with a hitler stache and swastikas all over it….cool.
This was only the tip of the iceberg. Once I return to work from vacation I am called into the HR office Friday. My boss, the GM, and the HR director are all staring at me with a paper in their hands and hand it to me. An anonymous email was sent to ALL the heads of the company, across multiple countries saying that I used the company computer to look at porn (not true), that I stole money from the company (not true), and that I bad mouthed my employers behind their back. Included in the email was a text conversation I had with my ex ranting about my boss and GM…and as they read it I just turned red and admitted it was true. The things that were written were too spot on to deny. Additionally the email exposed my past criminal history which the company never looked for and I couldn’t deny. The three of them told me to come back at the end of the day to decide what they will do with me…thankfully it only took 15 minutes and they called me back in. They ended up suspending me from work for a week without pay. I was SOOOO thankful they didn’t fire me!
Anyways, I took that week to block the s*** out of the crazy ex because I knew she did it. Everything about the email pointed to her and her craziness. She continued to call me from friends phones when she was drunk for months to threaten me. At one point she sent something like “my uncle is in the Italian mafia and he just got out of jail in Anderson…he knows your address and is going to f***ing kill you”….to which I got the local police involved and put a restraining order on her. Her parents on the other hand were threatening on taking me to court for $500 for the vacation (which they would have lost) and my ex wanted to take me to court for the bathroom decorations she bought me for my apt as a gift (again, she was an idiot if she thought she would win that). Her dad was pretty frequently texting and leaving me voicemails about killing me which was fine because it just gave me more substance in court (dumb f***ing hillbillies).
The charges never came, the random calls from her and her family stopped, but damn did my reputation at work take a plummet. My boss and I hated each other at that point and my raises/bonuses were minimum. Also, I had developed a horrible f***ing anxiety at work because of the email thread that was put on blast. I still have some anxiety but I mean it was BAD back then….I couldn’t make eye contact with anyone.
Thankfully I have a new job now and the past is past. She hasn’t communicated with me in a while but I noticed her creeping on my LinkedIn account not too long ago. And she is now engaged to some backwoods, hillbilly looking dude. Good for him, good for me! And thank God we were not married…
TL;DR Went on vacation with ex gf…got into fight, she hit me, we broke up. After vacation, I get revenge sex with ex ex gf and she finds out. Her and her parents threaten to kill me, then sue me for vacation fees, then threaten to kill again. Ex GF sends anonymous letter to work getting me suspended for week without pay. Restraining order filed. Loss of contact. F*** that bitch. (jkostry)