Please watch where your eyes wander
Most men aren’t discrete while they let their eyes wonder. They allow their eyes to travel and roam, only stopping themselves once they’re caught by a disapproving person.
Guys, in case you were ever wondering, after a woman catches a man starring at her chest, she’s most likely creeped out.
Regardless, the habit of looking at everything except a woman’s eyes seems to be widespread. The women being gawked at often view this behavior as offensive, aggressive, or forward. Since there are no written rules — and the unspoken rules of chivalry seem to be missing — these ladies volunteered to help. The women of Reddit shared their brutally honest thoughts about guys starring down their bra area.
A Friendly Glance
I totally noticed when I was looking straight ahead when my male friend sitting next to me glanced at my chest. It’s better to let him think he got away with something than to call him out and have him be a nervous wreck the next time we meet. (banjjak313)
It depends. If I see a guy’s eyes drop down, go “yep, boobs,” and then come back up, I don’t care. Boobs are great, you can’t help but take a peek. If a guy goes for the blatant staring, then I get all defensive about it. Take a peek, that’s fine, but don’t linger, that’s when it gets creepy. (Katalystica)
I look down to see if my bra is showing. If not, I assume they’re just looking cause they’re so small. I do feel uncomfortable, but what ya gonna do. It doesn’t happen that often when you have micro boobies! (katara20)