Hopefully the person dating them gets these hints
He hated her spending time with me. Snide jokes about lesbian lovers and wondering about the true nature of our relationship. The day we met finally, he told me that muff-munching can’t compete with a good hard d**king. Then he started insisting that I was closeted and obsessed with her, my boyfriend was just a beard. Funny thing is, I was meeting this girl after five months. He was scary controlling and insecure.
Four years later, they are sadly still together. I have given up at this point. (buttercup987)
The Violent Type
She messaged me to let me know she wouldn’t be on her phone until she got a new one bc the one she has is busted. When I pressed a little, he had thrown it and stomped it when she complained about it dropping calls and having a bad battery.
So, typical best friend, I’m like, I would make the guy pay, blah blah. Fast forward a few hours, he is on her Facebook Messenger, reading our conversation, trying to justify it to me. It gave me the willies to have him read our conversation. He has also thrown a remote through their plasma TV when he was mad.
I know that he will be violent with her one day, if he hasn’t already and she is just keeping it secret. It makes me sick to my stomach. (rare_side-effect)
We were out to dinner. I told them a story about my ex girlfriend about how she never got a job after we moved, spent all my money, forced us to get a luxury apartment and, as soon as she did get a job, started screwing some dude at her job. I literally came home one night and found them in bed.
After hearing all this my friend’s girlfriend said “Wow, she sounds really resourceful. She took you for a ride and got away with it. Good for her.”
As soon as she was in the bathroom I told my friend to break up with her. He did eventually. (bdresner)